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Bantering is attractive because it shows that you’re used to being social and you are used to being the center of attention. Not only are you used to being the center of attention but you’re also used to being able to make people feel comfortable around each other. The best way to start a conversation and continue it for the first initial stages is by bantering. This will allow people to warm up around you. It will allow you to make new friends quickly and effectively. Being the social ambassador and the bridge between friends makes you a leader. Being a leader gives you social status.

We know women are attracted to social status and personal value. When you banter you show traits of a person who values themselves. Bantering isn’t logical and being able to banter show’s that because you are able to have fun that you are able to say whatever you want, whenever you want. Women want a man that they can be themselves around.

Have you ever been in a long-term relationship and realized the closer you grew to each other the more comfortable you both were in just acting like little kids around each other? You can create this feeling of knowing each other by effectively bantering.

The reason why it shows so much and so little is being said is just that. No real content is being transferred and so non-neediness and non-approval seeking behavior are being conveyed. Asking “Where are you from?” or “What do you do?” may come off as being needy and approval seeking. Since someone of high social status has his needs met from his entire group of friends and family than why would he need to too seek approval elsewhere? He should have options and his emotional needs met elsewhere. Through having solid emotional connections with many people is a way of living a life full of abundance and non-neediness. Remember, you do not need these interactions and by bantering you’ll be able to most effectively convey that verbally.