As I said two days ago I was to write about the various phases or moods a man should portray through his personality. Yet, one night while lying in bed I was reminded of when I met a woman on the street during the day and thought of sharing what it is that goes through my head when I encounter a woman I find attractive. This information is generalized so you can replicate and duplicate at will, mix, match and concoct your own approach, but remember there is no perfect approach.

As a rule of thumb you should think about being genuine and sincere. If the real, authentic you is a bit stammering and sweaty then don’t apologize for it. In fact, own it. Just as a beautiful woman stands upright and owns her posture and mannerisms, an attractive man is congruent to who he is inside. Think of the man you are when you are on the couch hanging out with your buddies. Remember: smile. This is the playful, easy-going guy you want to be when conveying your personality after initiating a conversation through asking a question.

Something as simple as “What time is it?” is a perfect question for getting anyone to stop and help you get to where you are going in life. Most people are friendly and helpful we as a society seem to deny it though. Last rule I truly stick by is giving her reason to why I stopped her. If you asked for the time then essentially you do have reason to why you are talking to her, yet what is the real reason? Man up, and tell her what it is you found interesting about her, state your intent, and ask her for her number. “You seem like a lot of fun and we should get together sometime, what’s your number?” Congratulations, you’ve met someone you’re interested in on the street in broad day light.

 

Advanced Attraction Arts

Posted In: , . By Kevin Salas


Advanced Attraction Arts internalized from the teachings of Joshua Pellicer and Johnny Dzubak of The Art of Charm.What does a woman find attractive in a man?There is an underlying concept of attraction that creates curiosity in the opposite sex. Attraction is purely a curiosity and or interest in someone else. As confusing as attraction from women to men can seem there are reoccurring themes and patterns found in these relationships. A woman is generally and typically attracted to a successful man. Being a provider and protector a man is fulfilling his generalized gender role and allows for a flourishing relationship with his nurturing partner. To provide typically means to be the bread winner and essentially calls for the man to provide either financially or mentally. If the man cannot fulfill his role financially he can hold the relationship together when things are shaky by not cracking under pressure and keeping his composure so that a relationship can survive financial hardships and emotional turmoil.

This is how come men who are still in school, unemployed and or living at home with their parents are still successful at attracting women.It is not the actual possessions of a man who defines who he is or dictates his attractiveness to women. It is the potential he has to make his future work towards his favor. Ambition, decisiveness, leadership, a positive outlook and assertiveness are the attractive qualities women look for in a man. In addition to those a man should also encompass these three moods, mindsets attitudes or behaviors. A man should be able to be a boy, a friend and a man. We will touch on these lightly next week.