People go to parties to socialize, drink and have fun. Finally, we get some time to play and take a day away from work. We know that women are attracted to social status and personal value in a man. Throw a party and you will automatically have the highest social status in the room. People look to be led by you. You become the leader of a social circle if you do this right. Invite attractive women to your parties and make them feel more comfortable in your home.
1. Invite a Social Circle. Find people that are open to trying out new things and elicit their personal interests. You wouldn’t invite a devout Christian girl to a stoner death metal party now, would you? Make people feel good so they will enjoy being around you. Be honest about your intentions. Say “I know a lot of people so I throw parties, come by Friday”. Invite people personally, through text messaging but especially over the phone. Post your party on social networking sites like Facebook or Myspace to get a laundry list of people to come.
2. Invite a Group of Women. Be aware of whether or not the women you are meeting have friends. Be curious and ask her questions about them. What do they do for fun? How do they know each other? How does she feel about them? It’s up to you which route you take next. Women can become jealous so dating them all can become a risk if you treat anyone of them differently. Ultimately, you want to treat them like a group. Establish with her how your relationship works. Is your relationship secretive or is it out in the open? I prefer the latter. Communicate any changes you wish to make in the relationship.
3. Choose the type of party. If you can’t imagine what the party would be like there is less of a chance you will go. Paint a vivid picture for everyone of what your party would be like. ‘Get-togethers’ are parties with only a few people. Play beer-pong, guitar hero, smoke hookah, and warm-up for a larger party at a ‘get-together’. Bigger parties have space to dance, loud music and pair well with a full keg of beer, or two. After parties are parties after the party. Pool parties and BBQ’s are great for the summer time and spending the whole day socializing.
4. Throw a themed party. Themes parties have to be taken seriously. Well, they are actually the least serious of parties but cooperation should still be seriously enforced. Themed parties allow for role-playing situations that are similar to a party on Halloween. Hollywood parties include high-heels, suits, ties and your pair of trusty cufflinks. Hawaiian parties are for flower shirts, sandals and coconut shell bras. Pimp’s n Ho’s parties are for pimp cups, alligator boots, and short skirts. Free everyone of societal rules and cut loose during a wild themed party.
5. Tricks of The Trade. Give people roles to play at the party. Make someone the door greeter, make someone the bartender and put someone in control of the music. This makes it easier for you to lead the social circle and takes a load off of your back. Depending on the music you play, you can make either a fun or seductive atmosphere for the party. Dimmer lights dilate our pupils and make us appear more attractive to the opposite sex. People will want to stay longer if you have enough seats for them. Drinks shouldn’t be all out on the table at once. Conserve for the long night ahead and next week’s party. Watch the girl-to-guy-ratio. Having more women at the party demonstrates an abundance of choices. A woman can’t help but be attracted to a man that has options. The fewer guys at your party the more valuable each guy becomes. Set boundaries by not allowing a certain amount of people to come or limiting entry to certain rooms. This will make people respect you and prevent them from taking advantage of you.
Regularly talk to people about your parties so they can picture themselves going. Be aware of your guest’s comfort. Your party isn’t anything without your friends. If you don’t get to know them as friends they won’t come back to another one of your parties. You won’t need to supplicate by spending tons of many for people to come. People will bring drinks to your party if you make them feel good.
