As I said two days ago I was to write about the various phases or moods a man should portray through his personality. Yet, one night while lying in bed I was reminded of when I met a woman on the street during the day and thought of sharing what it is that goes through my head when I encounter a woman I find attractive. This information is generalized so you can replicate and duplicate at will, mix, match and concoct your own approach, but remember there is no perfect approach.

As a rule of thumb you should think about being genuine and sincere. If the real, authentic you is a bit stammering and sweaty then don’t apologize for it. In fact, own it. Just as a beautiful woman stands upright and owns her posture and mannerisms, an attractive man is congruent to who he is inside. Think of the man you are when you are on the couch hanging out with your buddies. Remember: smile. This is the playful, easy-going guy you want to be when conveying your personality after initiating a conversation through asking a question.

Something as simple as “What time is it?” is a perfect question for getting anyone to stop and help you get to where you are going in life. Most people are friendly and helpful we as a society seem to deny it though. Last rule I truly stick by is giving her reason to why I stopped her. If you asked for the time then essentially you do have reason to why you are talking to her, yet what is the real reason? Man up, and tell her what it is you found interesting about her, state your intent, and ask her for her number. “You seem like a lot of fun and we should get together sometime, what’s your number?” Congratulations, you’ve met someone you’re interested in on the street in broad day light.