In the beggining of a conversation the pressure is on. Both parties are a little nervous. What do we do normally when we feel uncomfortable? We laugh.

If you get her laughing she will wonder why you aren't 'trading resumes' with her like most guys do. (for ex..."what do you do?, where are you from?...etc.) And you will break the tension.

Since you haven't given up the usual 'resume' information she will become curious. This will cause her to become invested in your conversation and start asking questions. By making her do what she does when she is normally attracted to someone she will start to convince herself that she is attracted to you.

Don't take the conversation so seriously. Be silly. I call this BANTERING. Here are a few lines I created and used for over 4 years of approaching women and dating multiple women. You can use these immedialety to start a conversation, make her laugh, get her chasing you and or keep the conversation going.


You're cute, but you look like trouble

You're my new girlfriend...wait, are you safe?

Don't look at me like that...I'm not just a big butt and a smile.

Think you can take me?...girl I'd tickle you 'till you pee your pants.

Whoa Whoa. Don't kick my ass now


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