I recently attended two seminars where I sat and learned from 2 different dating coaches. The first seminar was hosted by Art, a dating coach based out of New York. He wasn’t the speaker but he had Dave, a well-spoken dating coach who had a lot of value to offer. Dave was nicely dressed and had a unique way of teaching. He told a story about his friend who was bad with women. Throughout the story about his friend losing a girl and so and so forth he would stop intermittently to explain a concept.


Dave had one real cool concept that stuck out at me. He said guys who are trying to get better at meeting and dating women generally have one of these two problems. Either the guy would have a problem with escalating or a problem with calibrating. Escalating means making the interaction more intimate by means of touch or intent. Calibrating means to modify what it is you’re doing according to the circumstances in order to perfect your approach. Escalating consciously isn’t as bad because if you escalate you will have more results and naturally tend to calibrate. Calibrating consciously is bad only because if you try and micro-manage every situation you will most likely never escalate and become to analytical and or hesitant.


The other seminar I went to was held by J.T. Williams, better known as the Asian Playboy. It was alright but there wasn’t much content. In place of the content was a lot of stories about what he did. He talked about how to get guy from cockblocking but, ultimately it lacked practical content. I’m leaving to Chicago to teach a bootcamp tomorrow morning and I’ll be back to give you the details…’till then…go out there and meet some women!